What Do Guys Notice On A Date?

By LoveBug On September 20, 2007 Under Dating

Men have their own ways of perceiving women. Here are some of the highlights.

Most people feel that attention to vanity is shallow. But to be presentable one does need some amount of grooming.

Often we hear women say that a guy has to love them for their inner beauty and not the superficial beauty. No one can stop you from dressing as you desire but when you put constraints on yourself then you are limiting the number of men who will find you attractive. In the end, meeting the right person is a numbers game and part of getting those numbers rolling is how well you dress.
Wear the right kind of lingerie plays a crucial role. It can be inexpensive but it can’t be the kind that comes in a package of three colors-blue, white and yellow nor can it be the old fashioned kinds that reaches up to your rib cage or hangs like a diaper.
Guys rarely notice the style of shoes you are wearing unless they want to flatter you. They do notice the heels because they make the legs and feet sexy. Stilettos also change the walk of a woman and that can be very alluring at times.
Hair is what is noticed very often. Your style, color and texture are not that crucial. Your hair only needs to have a clean, tousled or have just-out-of-bed look. Men usually like long, sexy hair because they don’t have it. Very few women can get away with a short boyish look. So it is best that you stop cutting your hair as you age.
Choosing the right clothes for a date is very important. Select something that will accentuate your best body parts. It could be your beautiful back, smooth shoulders or your sexy, toned calves, you be the judge of that. Along with clothes you also need to work on your make-up. Choose something elegant yet natural looking.