1) Instant coffee is good but instant sparks are not always advisable. You need to get to know the person first and go beyond his charming smile and flashy lifestyle.

• It is very rare that women initiate sex. The main reason they don’t is because they know that the man will. They know that he will let them know when they want it, at which point they can decide whether or not they want to comply.  
• There is a way to change this behaviour of your girlfriend or wife. If you usually have sex a couple of times a week, chances are that she expects that amount of intercourse. So for a period of one week, tease her subtly by giving her long, passionate kisses, sensual massages or caressing her softly. Do this when you are watching a movie and when you know that she is getting aroused, pull away and continue with the activity that you were engaged in, like nothing has happened. A week of this will drive her up the wall and she will be all over you by the weekend.
• Women too fear rejection. Therefore in most cases women fail to initiate sex. Their egos are more fragile. The best way to handle this situation is – the man should reinforce her all the time so that she gets over her shyness and fear of rejection. For example: Encourage her every move. If she puts her hand on your thigh, keep it there. If she gives you a kiss, actively kiss her back. Tell her that you love the moves she makes. Soon, she will learn what turns you on and initiate sex.
• If you have heard “I have a headache” so many times that you have started walking around with a bottle of aspirin in your pocket, the reason could be that your woman may never initiate sex may be because she simply isn’t in the mood nearly as often as you are. Either she has a low libido or is no longer as attracted to you as she used to be. To manage this you have to spice up your love life. Maybe you have stopped charming her and are not as considerate as you used to be.  

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How To Manage A No Strings Attached Relationship:

As in every relationship, things happen when both parties agree on the same rules.

• FB cannot be your boyfriend or girlfriend.

• This relationship is not possible if one of the partners are looking for happily ever after scenario as this kind of relationship is just for fun.

• Those who are sensitive and emotional in nature shouldn’t get into such kind of arrangement.

• This is ideal for those who what no frills attached relationships, footloose and fancy-free.

• People in “no strings attached” relationships should never hold hands in public, send each other text messages the morning after. If this is done, then the other partner will believe you are in love with him/her and that will ruin the relationship.

• Avoid discussing family, personal triumphs and disappointments.

• No going for movies together or giving each other affectionate nicknames.

F*ck buddy relationship can be long-standing as long as both partners are on the same wavelength. This relationship is just for passionate, steamy sex and nothing else should be expected out of this.

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1) Get her some chocolate when you meet her. Women love chocolate. It doesn’t have to be a big box but an assorted mix works well. Or why not try some chocolate body paint for a saucy alternative. 

2) There is nothing more romantic than being whisked off for a wonderful weekend away.

3) If you are staying in for a romantic evening then set the scene for love. Tidy up and think about creating a sensual atmosphere. Scented candles are great for this. Choose the music of her choice and set the perfect mood.

4) Turn off your cell phone and give her your undivided attention. Distractions can be a passion killer.

5) Chivalry goes a long way so open doors for her and compliment her sense of style and dressing.

6) Make an effort with your appearance as well. Get a haircut; wear a clean shirt and get a close shave. Some women find stubble unappealing as it tends to give them a sore rash.

7) If you are guilty of being a slob, put the sheets in the wash this week and make sure the bed is suitably dressed for a night of passion. Rose petals sprinkled on the sheets add a nice touch.

8) Every woman likes to be wined and dined but you know for sure that the restaurants will be packed on the weekends. If you have a special place in mind then book in advance. Or you can venture out to cook at home. Don’t attempt anything too ambitious. After all, it is not the quality of food, she is interested in.

9) Alcohol can really lubricate an evening. It helps you overcome inhibitions and get you both in the mood for a night of passion. Champagne and strawberries make an irresistible combination. It can be very sexy to pour champagne over your lover in the build up to sex. But remember, too much alcohol can leave you a little limp.

10) Have fun with food. Using ice cream can cause a chilly thrill and eating strawberries off a lover’s stomach can be very sensual. 

11) Now you need to wash. Indulge in a sexy shower or bathe with your lover. Put scented candles in the bathroom.

12) Fantasy is important for women. If your lover has confided a fantasy to you, act it out. Dress up as a fireman or James Bond. 

13) Take time over love-making. Kiss her and make her feel special.

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1) The Escapist: A book seen always placed at his bedside naturally indicates he loves to read. It is a good thing you may think because he is well read and knowledgeable and you are right. But the flip side is that he loves escapism and prefers fantasy to reality. He compartmentalizes his life and prefers to leave his worries and tension outside the bedroom. He won’t be in favor of going to bed angry or sorting out marital problems while in bed. He would actually prefer getting dressed and going somewhere else to discuss issues.

2) The Workaholic: This type of a man doesn’t feel that he is overworked. His frame of mind only focuses on nothing else but work so getting work home is his second nature. His bedside table and bed will be scattered with paperwork and he will find it hard to switch off the night lamp. He complains of lack of time and gets irritable because he is forced to stop working. He will be very fidget, toss, turn, drink water and visit the bathroom couple of times because he is restless, busy planning work for the next day. So don’t expect him to be romantic in the bedroom.

3) The Fussy: He has a fixed process of how he should go to bed. He will need his things placed in the same location and placed in the same exact order. He is so tied up in various little bedtime rituals that it might take him an hour before he is ready to go to sleep.

4) The Perfectionist: Just as the title suggests, he likes everything to be just right. He enjoys luxurious best quality bed linen, perfect air conditioning with the optimum temperature setting. The reading light should be placed just above the eye level so that it doesn’t disturb him. In short, he takes his slumber very seriously.

5) The Slob: This type of the man brings all his activities in bed. He likes to eat, read newspaper, watch television and have conversation in bed. To him, the bedroom and his bed are not very sacred to him so best of luck if your partner has these traits.

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Discuss your sexual histories and whether or not either of you have ever been exposed to any sexually transmitted disease-STD. The more sexual partners one has, the greater the risk of catching STD.  

Talking about birth control and using it shows you care about yourself as well as your partner. If your partner does not show a willingness to discuss or use contraception, it maybe time to end the relationship.

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1) Timely Action: You must arouse her temptation which then gives her an adrenaline rush. Find an appropriate time and place to plant one, first on her cheek and then her lips while gently stroking her neck. Fear of being caught stimulates a fight or flight response. Adrenaline floods her system, making everything feel much more intense.

2) Enjoy The Drive: Heading to a party is the perfect opportunity to lure her over to the driver’s side, the mood is up and you are dressed for the occasion. Be subtle, gently gaze. Suggest that it is proper to be fashionable late, “How should we fill the time?”- and then halt and park. Then peck her. It is like sharing a secret all night especially if you have promised each other an encore.

3) Caressing Voice: Meeting women is easy, if you are not sidetracked by insecurity, coy games or body language interpretation. The simplest way is lean unexpectedly and whisper in her ear, “I just had to be near you.” Mind your tone. Calm and soothing tone cajoles her. And you have become friendly enough, you then know you will not be slapped or punched. Then tell her how beautiful she is and tell her how much you want her. Hearing your desire is the strongest aphrodisiac.

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1) Some Men Prefer Women Without Makeup: It is said that men prefer women without makeup especially while kissing because they don’t like their faces smudged with lipstick. Men like to see the natural beauty of a woman than a caked up face.

2) Some Men Like Women With Rounded Belly: Some men like curvy women as compared to lean and tone bodied one. They like the soft feel of a chubby body so a little belly can be turn on.

3) Some Men Find Wrinkles Attractive: Women are immensely disturbed about their wrinkles and seek every beauty product in the market that would erase those ugly lines. But there are men who love wrinkles.

4) Some Men Prefer Woman With Stretch Marks: This must be news for many women because they really detest those ugly stretch marks. But what really does it for a man is a woman who is natural. Stretch marks remind a man of the child they created together and her commitment to him. It is also an intimate detail of a woman’s body that only he is privy to.

5) Call To Him To Say “Miss You”: Men like it if women call them to tell them that they miss them even if they are drunk. Letting people know how they feel about each other is reassuring and attractive. Everyone likes to be complimented.

6) Walking Bare Feet: Some men like watching woman bare footed because it has a hint of nudity. Walking barefooted suggests naturalness and a rebel against convention and can clue a man in to fantasies of wildness.

7) Men Like Women Who Are Good With Kids: Men like to know how good a woman is with children. It gives them reassurance that if they plan a future then his children will be nurtured and well looked after. Through this they also see her motherly love and patience.

8 ) Forgetting Jokes Punch Lines Can Be Attractive: Men can be intimidated by intellectual women. So if a woman goofs up the punch line of a joke and makes a fool of herself in front of a group of friends, the guy who finds the woman attractive will take her side. Her vulnerability triggers his protective instinct. 

9) Baggy Dressing Can Be Sexy: When people pass a certain point in their relationship, going to bed in casual clothes suggests that the woman is relaxed and confident about herself, and a man can find that very sexy.

 10) Skinny Jeans Work Well On Men: Women might think skinny jeans are impossible to wear. But men think a little muffin top is cute. The curvy shape is synonymous with fertility so the soft fleshiness is tapping directly into men’s unconscious evolutionary desires. 

Extract of this article taken from Daily Mirror

The study by researchers at New York’s University at Albany found that the fairer sex has developed kissing as an evolutionary tool to find the right father for their children and that they often judge men exclusively on the quality of the first kiss that they share. The study based on the questions put to 1,000 students about their views on kissing found that women “place more emphasis on a kiss and are more reliant on kissing as a mate assessment technique” than men. 

Psychologist Gordon Gallup who led the study, said that that for many men, the first kiss can be the one that makes or breaks the deal. “While many forces lead two people to connect romantically the kiss particularly the first one can be a deal breaker,” he said, as quoted in the Daily Mail.

“Kissing is part of an evolved courtship ritual. This may activate mechanisms that function to discourage reproduction among individuals who are genetically incompatible,” he added.

The researchers found that bad breath and being generally unpleasant are also important factors for women. They can interpret them as a sign of health problems. Tongue contact and the exchange of saliva were found to help both sexes make subconscious assessments about each other. 

Women’s breathe can indicate hormone levels and fertility while male saliva will have traces of the sex hormone testosterone.In long-term relationships females not only rate kissing as more important than men, but they indicated that kissing was important throughout a relationship. The study also found that men placed less importance on kissing as the relationship progresses.

“Kissing is used by everyone as a bonding and testing mechanism. But the fact is women are more discriminatory than men. Men can just go out and spread their seed but women have to take more responsibility because of the consequences and so they are likely to want to test more.” This statement was made by Dr. Glenn Wilson, an expert in relationships at London’s Institute of Psychiatry which was quoted by BBC news website. 

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