Cupid strikes with his arrow…Attraction takes control… What’s next? How do you know if he is your guy? Will the sparks last forever?

 1) Instant coffee is good but instant sparks are not always advisable. You need to get to know the person first and go beyond his charming smile and flashy lifestyle.

Some useful pointers to help you bring some sizzle in your sex life. 

• It is very rare that women initiate sex. The main reason they don’t is because they know that the man will. They know that he will let them know when they want it, at which point they can decide whether or not they want to comply.  
• There is a way to change this behaviour of your girlfriend or wife. If you usually have sex a couple of times a week, chances are that she expects that amount of intercourse. So for a period of one week, tease her subtly by giving her long, passionate kisses, sensual massages or caressing her softly. Do this when you are watching a movie and when you know that she is getting aroused, pull away and continue with the activity that you were engaged in, like nothing has happened. A week of this will drive her up the wall and she will be all over you by the weekend.
• Women too fear rejection. Therefore in most cases women fail to initiate sex. Their egos are more fragile. The best way to handle this situation is – the man should reinforce her all the time so that she gets over her shyness and fear of rejection. For example: Encourage her every move. If she puts her hand on your thigh, keep it there. If she gives you a kiss, actively kiss her back. Tell her that you love the moves she makes. Soon, she will learn what turns you on and initiate sex.
• If you have heard “I have a headache” so many times that you have started walking around with a bottle of aspirin in your pocket, the reason could be that your woman may never initiate sex may be because she simply isn’t in the mood nearly as often as you are. Either she has a low libido or is no longer as attracted to you as she used to be. To manage this you have to spice up your love life. Maybe you have stopped charming her and are not as considerate as you used to be.  

Excerpt: TNN

A “no strings attached relationship” or f*ck buddy (FB) is the new face of passionate relationship. For those who are embarrassed or outraged with this term should know that this kind of relationship is spreading rapidly across the globe. F*ck buddy is a guy/girl who you have dated before. But somehow things didn’t take off well but the sex was great. So when you want to have a steamy session, you call them. 

How To Manage A No Strings Attached Relationship:

As in every relationship, things happen when both parties agree on the same rules.

• FB cannot be your boyfriend or girlfriend.

• This relationship is not possible if one of the partners are looking for happily ever after scenario as this kind of relationship is just for fun.

• Those who are sensitive and emotional in nature shouldn’t get into such kind of arrangement.

• This is ideal for those who what no frills attached relationships, footloose and fancy-free.

• People in “no strings attached” relationships should never hold hands in public, send each other text messages the morning after. If this is done, then the other partner will believe you are in love with him/her and that will ruin the relationship.

• Avoid discussing family, personal triumphs and disappointments.

• No going for movies together or giving each other affectionate nicknames.

F*ck buddy relationship can be long-standing as long as both partners are on the same wavelength. This relationship is just for passionate, steamy sex and nothing else should be expected out of this.

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