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To win back an ex, should not be made on impulse. It has to be well thought of and there should be an understanding, why you want to get back together. 

Step 1: The recuperative period is crucial because if you do not recover long after your break-up or take too much time to break the mental block you have against your ex, you may just lose out on any chances of getting back together. It could be worse if he/she have got into another relationship. This will devastate you even more.

Step 2: When analyzing “what went wrong in your relationship?” don’t get emotional and make it worse on yourself by drinking or sobbing endlessly. You need to be truthful and find out what really did happen. Usually it could be you not meeting your ex’s needs or if you had some habit that was driving her/him away. 

When should you never patch up with your ex boyfriend:

1) He has physically abused you.

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Arguments are common and so are misunderstandings which sometimes spark negativity in a harmonious relationship. Here are some tips how to manage arguments when in a relationship.

• Try To Remain Calm: Understand and hear the problem correctly. Don’t raise your voice unnecessarily.
• To The Point: Discuss what is bothering you at present. Don’t bring out old grudges and change the issue of the problem.
• Keep It Real: Deal with the issue on hand and not a problem that may happen. Be realistic or you will be just frustrating one another.
• Avoid Calling Names: Character assignation should be avoided completely.
• Set A Time Limit: Fights and arguments should have a time limit. It is a temporary disharmony. Don’t allow the ugliness of an argument to stretch on indefinitely.
• Kiss And Make-Up: How an argument ends is crucial. Recognize when an olive branch is being extended to you, maybe in the form of joke or an apology. Accept