Love Blog

Marriages fall out everyday. Couples say that they tried but it didn’t work out. They are heart broken. Slowly, they heal their emotional scars and try again. But the hurt of the first marriage still lingers somewhere and transforms into their lives again.

Some common reasons why marriages fail are:

1) Fault finding or criticism are hurtful. It involves attacking someone’s nature rather than their behaviour. This hurts the self esteem of the person.

2) Intimacy is crucial in a marriage. Everyone needs and wants to be cared for and nurtured. If this is deprived then the marriage is sure to fail.

3) Nagging and complaining leads to annoyance. It is good to vent out problems but doing that too often is not healthy. Communicate, discuss and resolve your differences rather than bringing them up and arguing over them daily.

4) Stonewalling your partner because you don’t want to deal with the problem. A partner

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Nurturing a relationship is vital if you want to stay together. Bitterness, irritation and constant stress between two people not only affects their personal mindset but also the people around. Learn to resolve fights and arguments by saying “Sorry.” But many find it hard to say this. It is important to understand that if you are wrong, admitting your mistake is the right thing to do. An argument doesn’t need a winner or a loser.

When in an argument, avoid bringing up the past as it will add more hostility. It is best to remain calm and above all forgive and forget. If you have to disagree then do it devotedly. There will be many occasions when you and your partner will not see things eye to eye. Learn to accept people as they are and adjust whole-heartedly.

Learn to be persistent in showing that both of you like each other and want to

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Every relationship requires some amount of adjustments. But it is essential that you are aware of the pitfalls that cause the love bond to go sour.

Expecting your partner to change or to fix their flaws after committing to a long term relationship is not advisable. If you find some flaws that can be rectified, especially when in public then do so carefully when you are alone with your partner. We all have flaws but it is best to accept them just like your partner has accepted yours. Making a big issue over little things will only dampen the softness and love that is blossoming.

 Another example of unrealistic relationship expectation is thinking that your partner is the solution to all your problems lifelong. Expecting this is not being fair to him or yourself. You will be always dependant and clinging to him for every little thing. You are responsible for your

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