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Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend

LoveBug — Sat, 02 Feb 2008 04:30:26 +0000

Getting a gift for a woman can be a life changing situation for a man. Many find it hard because they are unaware of her likes and dislikes. Then there are days when she may not be in the best of moods to understand the sentiments behind your present. Here are some simple gift ideas that work well with most romantic occasions.

1) Flowers: This is a very common gift but the choice of flowers can make a difference. Find out her favourite flower and add it in the centre of the bouquet or create an innovative way of presenting the flowers.

2) Perfume: They work wonderfully as gifts. But find out what kind of perfume she would prefer-mild, strong, floral or any other type.

3) Jewelry: Your selection could range from small trinkets like charm bracelets, earrings, pendants and anklets. This entirely depends on your budget.

4) Gift Coupons: There are some men who are unsure of their girlfriend’s choice that they prefer to give them gift coupons of their favourite outlet. It seems like a good idea for some while others prefer to get real presents.

5) Day At The Spa/Salon: Another new trend that is catching on is a paid package for a makeover at a salon or a day at the spa. This is definitely expensive but when love conquers everything so what is money.

There are many innovative ways to woo a woman and giving presents is just one of them. Explore new avenues to express your love and affection in a unique way.

Laws Of Attraction In Dating

LoveBug — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 04:30:55 +0000

Their eyes met across a crowded room. The party chatter ebbed away, and music slowed. The first lover’s gaze is the staple of the romantic novelist, and scientists believe they have now revealed the true nature of its attractive power. According to new research, romance has very little to do with it. That “look” is all about sex and ego. “It does seem to be a sort of narcissistic thing. People are attracted to people who are attracted to them, said Ben Jones in the face research laboratory at the University of Aberdeen. “It’s really a very basic effect that we are all; at some level at least, aware of. If you smile at people and you maintain eye contact it makes you more attractive,” he said.

The work challenges most previous studies of facial attractiveness that have focused on physical characteristics such as preference for symmetrical faces or masculine versus feminine features. “Social signals about how attracted someone else is to you actually seem to be quite important “, he said. “You are attracted to people who are attracted to you, and that shows attractiveness is not just about physical beauty”

Dr Jones and his colleagues’ say they have shown that attraction is based on social cues that say, “I’m interested in you.” The most important cue is whether someone is looking directly at you.

Source: Guardian newspapers limited 2007.

10 Things You Should Never Say To Your Girlfriend

LoveBug — Thu, 03 Jan 2008 04:30:22 +0000

There are certain things that you should never say to your girlfriend. Unless of course if your girl is a mind reader. Among the long list of things here are the top ten.

1) “She’s So Hot”- No matter how hot the girl walking in front of you, never say this aloud. It is natural to look but don’t gawk and drool. Even if your girlfriend comments on that girl’s look, don’t feel that is it your duty to partake in the comment. She may know that you do look at girls but don’t make it so obvious about how you feel inside when you stare at them.

2) “My Ex Would Never Do This” – Never compare the old with the new. Your girlfriend believed you when you said that you have moved on so why bring the ex back. Making statements like this will only start an argument and rest assured your girl will be fretting and fuming. But can anyone really blame her.

3) “You friend is so stupid” – Name calling your girlfriend’s friends will not get you anywhere. If you want to keep things in a good way, respect her the way she respects you. Sometimes keeping mum about friends is a good thing even if you really know that the friend is taking advantage then maybe you can take your girl aside and explain things with examples, rather than just blame and pointing fingers.

4) “Why do you love me? I am not good enough for you”- Girls like men with confidence. If you make statements like this then it will be a total turn off. Even if you don’t feel so, acting like it will make you more the man she wants you to be. She will feed your ego and breed real confidence that ultimately ends with you becoming a better person.

5) “If you really loved me you would…” – Putting conditions on her love for you is really very low. Smart guys don’t stoop this low. Be a man and ask her straight. That will get you a lot closer to what you want than trying such pathetic statements.

6) “You are so like your mother” – That is a good thing isn’t it? Well not always. Women do fear at times turning into their mothers. So saying this is not really good. You don’t know what the outcome will become.

7) “I’m not in the mood” – Women can use just about any excuse to put off sex. But if a guy says that he is too tired or just not up for a go, it rattles the very foundation of the relationship. Women think men are sexual deviants with a voracious appetite and your refusing it means something is definitely wrong. She thinks that she is no longer your sex kitten and you definitely are seeing someone else.

8) “I don’t like the outfit you are wearing” – If she is wearing it, she happened to like it enough to spend on it. Making statements like this not only brings her taste into question but it also leaves you looking like a backward, silly man. If you find her outfit too revealing for your taste, you can always explain how you feel and what you think will look good on her. You can take her shopping and show her the clothes you like which you think will compliment her.

9) “What have you done to your hair? It’s awful” – Women like experimenting with their looks and sometimes they don’t turn out as they wanted to. Instead of vocalizing it and giving her funny looks, you can be nice to her. She could be upset too, seeing the end result. So consoling her will only make her love you more.

10) “Don’t get emotional now” – It doesn’t take much to get girls crying. So don’t snap at her when she is emotional or crying. It is best to explain things, help her wipe away her tears and give her a comforting hug.

Impact Of Online Dating On Women-Fun Packed With Frustration

LoveBug — Tue, 01 Jan 2008 04:30:11 +0000

Online dating renews women’s hope in love and sex but can be just as disappointing as the real-life dating scene, according to new Canadian research. Susan Frohlick, an anthropology professor at the University of Manitoba in Winnipeg, says the women she surveyed gained a sense of empowerment from their online dating experiences. But they still wanted the make to make the first move and expected him to pick up the tab. “Women are finding it a useful took to enter the dating world, they find that it’s safe, they find that they can be a little bolder than they would in face-to-face relationships,” Frohlick said of her survey, which looks at how women over 30 view their online dating.“But at the same time, they are experiencing frustration because it does seem that the internet in many ways is just the same old bar scene.”

Complaints include a preponderance of men who are looking for much younger women, as well as men who misrepresent their looks, interests or marital status, or who show little interest in moving the relationship offline,” she said. “There’s not much of a difference between the virtual world and the real world,” said Linda, 33, a Toronto professional who has used an online dating site on and off, three or four times for a few months each time. “It’s sad and equally as frustrating.” Linda says she knows it can work out, noting that a friend met her husband after spending more than two years on different web sites, but she admits she’s given up on the game. “Atleast when you are in the bar, you know what they look like,” she said, citing examples of meeting bald men whose profile pictures displayed a full head of hair. A lot more successful attractive women are using these tools-I don’t think the men match up.” Lori Miller, a singles and dating expert says dating via the web can mimic the bar scene. But it also gives women the chance to approach and meet dozens of men while knowing a little something about them beforehand. “You’re literally thrown into the largest singles bar,” she said. “it is a lot of work, it is the luck of the draw just being in that coffee shop and meeting the one.” Frohlick’s small survey, to be completed in April, is questioning up to 25 Canadian women about their online dating habits. She hopes it will become a pilot for a far larger survey of women across North America.

Source: Reuters, Toronto.

How To Manage A Blind Date?

LoveBug — Sun, 30 Dec 2007 04:30:50 +0000

Do your friends have a way of setting you up on a blind date? Well, I am sure they mean well. But they only reveal that he is a looker or she is a gorgeous bombshell? Don’t be alarmed. Here are few tips to keep you calm and talking smoothly through the whole evening.

1) Keep an open mind. Don’t form a mental image or have high expectations based on your friends enthusiasm.

2) Avoid spending too much time explaining about yourself.

3) Show a softer side of your personality.

4) Be a good listener.

5) Show an interest in his/her career by asking some simple questions.

6) Avoid nodding your head too much. Instead make eye contact.

7) Keep the conversation light.

8) Avoid revealing your innermost secrets to a total stranger.

9) Avoid laughing boisterously even if his/her jokes are truly funny.

10) If you are really shy, then role play with a friend to boost your confidence.

Places To Hangout With Your Date

LoveBug — Sat, 22 Dec 2007 04:30:35 +0000

You have been dating for a while and like each others company. Visiting the same joints like coffee shops or restaurants gets monotonous. Here are some tips where you two can hangout, have fun and get closer.

1) Day At The Spa: This is an ideal and relaxing way to spend a day. Get a package for two where you can share the privacy; enjoy a good massage, a Jacuzzi and a good poolside table for lunch. It will not only rejuvenate your body but all your senses, if you know what I mean.

2) Amusement Park: Rides galore can cheer up anyone. Spending a day here can bring out the child in everyone. So take the time and get cozy with her in every ride. Shoot at the rifle zone and win soft toys for her which she will always cherish.

3) Bowling: This may sound very predictable but if you plan it right then even the simplest of things can be a lot of fun. Many alleys offer night bowling events specially geared towards dating couples such as laser bowling or singles leagues. Find out if they can organize something special to surprise her.

4) Go Dancing: I am not referring to the nightclubs but learn dancing together like Salsa or Tango. Weekend lessons together can be a lot of fun. You will be learning, spending time practicing and then getting ready to show off to your friends. Think about it, you will be a winner in her eyes. She gets to learn something exciting with you and feels proud that you are the one leading her to experience new things in life.

5) Great Outdoors: You can go trekking, rock climbing or mountain biking and spend all day with nature and her close by your side. The adrenalin rush and the intoxication of love make a thrilling combination.

Spending time together is the ideal way to nurture a relationship and if you find exciting things to do then it adds further zing to it.

What You Need To Know About Speed Dating

LoveBug — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 04:30:18 +0000

Trends keep coming and going and sometimes we are inclined towards trying them out. Speed dating was once very hip and very few dared to venture in. But now many prefer such set-ups to meet a variety of people and choose the one best suited for their needs.

Pros Of Speed Dating:

1) Meeting a variety of interesting people.

2) You tend to give them your full attention as the time limit is fixed.

3) You get a feel of an individual’s persona. The way they sit, smile, and look at you. Their demeanor tells a lot about them.

4) Speed dating tells you that the other person is also serious and is also searching for the perfect mate like you are.

5) It is the best way to get dates.

Cons Of Speed Dating:

1) It is difficult to understand a person within few minutes. The color of his shirt may put you off or she may not have the best hairstyle so you will reject them based on their looks only. They could have been really nice companions but they didn’t get a chance to put that forth.

2) It is tough to hold a conversation if you don’t gel well with the person. Or the person could be a shy person initially and takes time to open up.

3) You may like a person but they may not like you. So you have to face rejection boldly.

4) People tend to lie about their background, marriage, job etc. So it is very difficult to say if the guy is not a social predator.

5) Those who dream about their soul mate may not find this mode of dating a wise decision because here the choice is mostly at a superficial level than an emotional or a practical one.

People have been lucky and have found their mate in speed dating but it is important to know how to pick of signs which scream and tell you that this guy or girl is not right for you.

Universally Accepted Ideas For Dating

LoveBug — Sat, 08 Dec 2007 04:30:19 +0000

Going on date is fun but sometimes it is difficult to decide where to go and have a good time. Girls tend to be more cautious on first dates as the person is unknown.

Inviting someone to a movie is definitely safe. One good way to make it a little interesting is to let your date choose the film. You can also suggest alternate movies or foreign/international films. Sometimes film festivals are very interesting and can hold a lot of interest.
Another interesting way to spend time together on a date is to go out for dinner. This will give you fair amount of time to talk and get to know each other.
Many people find it easier to go to a club or meet at bars. But this is totally up to individual preference.

So have fun and enjoy your time together and hope for the best.

Dressing Right For The Date-Find Out What You Shouldn’t Wear On A Date

LoveBug — Sat, 24 Nov 2007 04:30:36 +0000

Creating a lasting impression is crucial on a first date. Here is the list of things you should avoid:

Avoid Being Loud
Never wear clothes and shoes that are new. Such clothes may make you uncomfortable if the fit is not right and new shoes will pinch your toes and heel. This will ruin your mood as you will be constantly in pain and distracted.
Be yourself. Don’t copy models and actresses you see in fashion magazines.
Avoid ill-fitted or too short or revealing clothes. They will create a bad impression.
Avoid loud make-up.
Do not experiment a new look. Save it when you hang out with your friends.
Avoid very strong perfume.

The best way to dress on a date is to be yourself. Wear what you would normally when going with your friends and family. Trying too hard to impress a person can sometimes backfire. So just do your best and have a wonderful time.

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10 Things You Should Never Tell A Guy

LoveBug — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 04:30:35 +0000

1) When Will I See You Again: You will see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he will call. If not, next. You don’t have time for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.

2) Why Didn’t You Call: There is only one answer to this question: Because he didn’t want to. What you are really asking is – Why didn’t you want to call me?There could be lots of reasons. But you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and worrying about One guy. Don’t be so quick to put all your eggs in one basket, because if they break, it is a big mess.

3) Where Were You?: If he wanted you to know where he was, he would tell you. What you are really asking is- Were you with another female that you like who is better than me? This clearly shows your insecurity. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.

4) I Love You: By saying this first, you are hoping that he will say it back. But if he doesn’t, you will be devastated and feel foolish. Saying – I love you, will not speed things up if he is not ready to say it back. So relax and let him be the first to say it when he is ready.

5) Did You Sleep With Her?: As long as he is not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don’t torture yourself and him with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance is really bliss.

6) I’m Pregnant: With all the birth control choices available there is no excuse for becoming pregnant unless you want to be. You should be using something and he should use a condom every time.

7) Where Is This Going?: Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non actions will tell you where it is going. If it is going somewhere, you will know it. If it is not, then you will know that too.

8) We Need To Talk: This is equivalent of “Go to the principal’s office.” Guys know that it is not going to be a fun conversation, so they are already on defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try and talk to him when he is stressed, tired or watching TV.

9) I Hate You: Even if you do, it is totally uncalled and un-lady like. If there is an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when you are calm. If he is breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily but it is best to remain calm and act unfazed.

10) I Don’t Trust You: What you actually saying is “You need to step up your game because I can see you are up to something.” If he is really up to something, you’re saying this will make him sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb. It will be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.

Excerpt: Reuters